What to do whenever one says about breaking up the other person keeps blackmailing that oh I`ll self harm myself and all of that crap. I want to end my relationship but whenever I say it he emotionally goes on blackmailing me and I can no longer take it. I really need help here what should I do in such a situation? I don't want to stay but he is forcing me too. Sorry to be sexist I myself `m a guy but dude, what is up with such clingy men? I really want to get out of this! He is getting me suicidal I desperately need help!
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Oh talk about clingy man! I always thought we are born the rugged, sensitive, harsh, egoistic kind of people but dude have I seen the kind of men who just like to cry all the time, stick to you like you are some magnet to them, much worse than a woman I swear! Can't even stand a sight of these kind of men, damn them I was saved from having a nervous breakdown in that relationship! They are just so insanely clingy! Eeeeeeehhhhhh!!!
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This is so ridiculous; can't you just try and start living again with him? Give him a chance dude! Tell him where his problems lie and ask him to change a bit and you on the other hand would change a bit too according to his wishes. Try this out it might help unless you have just decided you don't want him ever again that's something different!
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I had a guy who was exactly the same - I took a knife jabbed it in his throat pointing the sharp knife side a bit on the skin of the throat and asked him should I kill you or kill myself? He started screaming and crying saying, I don't want to die hahahhahahaa. I left and now I'm a happy man lol.
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You know what you are being a douchebag, ass and what not! OR wait you are just being straight forward- I am so sorry to judge you. Blackmailing is not okay like never. How about you play those cards on him? In simple words- use all the techniques on him that he's using to influence you. Isn't that cool? You really need to cut that person out of your life but before you take this step, I'd recommend you to give it a talk. Tell him you are not liking his behaviour and this clinginess. Meanwhile you should get involved in your friend circle much so that you have people around you who support you and your choices when your partner continues to threaten you. You've put yourself in a very complex situation. Do inform the local police about this issue.
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