Is it okay to always be hiding under the closet?

[jassyhill]

Is it okay to always be hiding under the closet? I just saw the movie Angry Indian Goddess, for those who haven't watched it you guys need to watch it. Why is it made so god damn difficult? I mean I can have a guy best friend who comes over this and that but I can't have a boyfriend, why? If I prefer dicks over vaginas, moobs or flat chest over boobs then what's wrong with that? I'm done playing hide and seek, I really want to call him mine in front of the world but sadly we both know the consequences. Men out here please tell me how do I do this? I keep hiding it, I'm independent and everything but I love my family dearly and I really don't want to hurt them. How should I tell them that their only son is gay? Here they have dreams about getting me married with the most beautiful girl but I just can't, I'm into this gorgeous man, how do I make that understand? How do I let them know?

[Creamycock]

You are the only son? Shit that's going to be really tough for you! you cannot make it easy just hoping that they take it easy peasy and let you be open, with your guy! I'm not trying to dishearten you but I'm really just stating how it is - you are independent, you live on your own and you are the only son they depend on! I just feel sad for you love!

[fuckmeboy]

If you love your family that much, your family would love you the same way too, they might take time to adjust to the reality but I think they will come around so just come out. Look for an opening when the discussions of marriage are taking place tell them you don't want to get married to a woman and spill the beans of truth! This way you'll be breaking their heart once only and it will be recovered hopefully!

[Dicksick]

Hey handsome! Sad for me that you are already in love.

[chefchimp]

Dude this is good that you are the only son this will make them not to reject or disown you because you are the only SON! You could use this card, emotional talk them! Thank me later.

[Lovemonster]

I hope it gets easy for you and one day it just naturally slips out of the tongue, the timing is so perfect that they'll be like okay son, you are accepted as you are we love you! such a fairy tale no?

[lostcruise]

Angry Indian goddess? Seems weird to me but I'll watch it if it's on gays!

[Crazyluvah]

What!! Even my bff recommended that movie - what is it really about, will have to watch it now!

[MarkDF]

It is okay to prefer something different from what everyone else or most of them prefer but they are accepting the fact that we prefer different things from the most - you never know your parents have an idea, and they might just accept you as who you are. You never know they talk about your wedding so you tell them the truth about yourself. Isn't it possible?

[Bobby22]

I think you should just come out find an opening and say it! what happens will be dealt with later, you can always come around to make them understand but just tell them once first you can deal with the consequences later!

[jackjack]

You should call him yours in front of the world - every guy deserves that, I would say just come out right away, be a man and say it that you prefer guys over girls, and if you ever got married it will be a gay wedding not a normal one!