Okay, you were dating someone new. You had few dates already. You think that he is nice and you believe that he is starting to like you, too. Note that there was no sex on all those dates. Suddenly, he just blocked you on all communication fronts from phones and on his social media accounts. What would you do next?
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I would just have to accept the fucking fact that he had ghosted me already. That means that I was assuming only. The real thing is that he did not like me. Oh, well. I should move on and get on with another man.
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I'll move on, as simple as that. There's no point in hoping that he'll come back because I'm sure that he's not going to do that. Also, he might have found someone else who he can both have sex and date with.
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Drifter, that's what you get when you're acting a bit slow. Maybe he's been hinting you to initiate the first move to have sex with him since there was no sex involved to all of those dates with him. He got tired of waiting for your initiative to ask him about it.
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What I'll do next is to contemplate about the ghosting that he just let me experience. Then after I accepted that, I'll now proceed to look for another guy who I can interact with and who can keep me entertained.
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I think I'm going to call my friends so that we can have a drink together. I'm sure that I already invested feelings for him so I'll be hurt for sure. I'll probably cry and still keep trying to contact him.
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It's okay to cry your heart out, Cloud69, but it is NOT okay to still keep contacting him. Don't let yourself suffer that much just for a guy who just treated you like shit. Move on and have some more drinking sessions with your friends to forget about him.
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He was never really in love with me and not even sexually attracted to me. Maybe he has found someone better than me that is why he suddenly blocked me for no reason. Well, I wouldn't blame myself for that because I accept that people will treat us special then one day, you're nothing to them.
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I would dramatically toss all of my things, I will break things in front of me, and I will call my best friend telling he's such a jerk and I will never love again. Kidding aside, that's just me being dramatic on my mind. What I'll do next is to keep calm and maybe I could cry about it for a while then I'll get over as if nothing happened.
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In between those dates, I can tell that he's just waiting for me to ask him if he wants to have sex with me. It's all clear to me now that he left me because I seem to bore the living hell out of him. What else can I do? I don't read minds so next time he better tell me if he wants something to happen between us. Not leaving me clueless about where I went wrong, such an ass!
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He blocked you simple because he does not want you anymore. He does not want to be bothered anymore. He wants to have a life that is not a part of you. Bottom line: Quit it. Look for someone else.
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